Which Are The Benefits Of Domestic Discipline?

Domestic Discipline is a wonderful lifestyle that has many benefits for those who practice it. In this article we will examine some of the benefits that it offers for the woman who is lovingly disciplined by her HOH – her male Head of Household. He is the man (either her husband or her boyfriend) who is responsible for disciplining her for feminine misbehavior. He does this as a loving gift of guidance and correction to her. He disciplines her for her own good.

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If you have read any of the other articles on the Domestic-Discipline.net, you will know that there are various types of spankings that a woman may receive. The main types, aside from an Introductory Discipline, are punishment spankings, Maintenance Discipline, Preemptive Discipline and Disobedience Discipline spankings. With only the occasional exception, the issues discussed in this article apply to all of those types of spankings, which together form the basis of the Domestic Discipline lifestyle.

This article will explore the benefits of Domestic Discipline for the woman. Although many people practice Domestic Discipline, not all are consciously aware of the many benefits it bestows upon the woman who receives it. She may receive Domestic Discipline but not fully understand why it is helping her so much and making her feel so good in herself. While a conscious understanding of the benefits of Domestic Discipline is not necessary to enjoy these benefits, a more conscious awareness can help to render a woman more grateful for the gift of Domestic Discipline that her HOH gives her. It can also make her more articulate when she explains her lifestyle to trusted friends or family.

 

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Benefit: Behaviour Modification

Behaviour modification and Spanking

Benefit: The Deterrent effect

The teaching aspect

Punishment

Benefit: Catharsis

Benefit: Releasing emotions

Benefit: Experience Submission

Benefit: Teaching Submission

Benefit: Experience Feminity

Most important benefit: Reconnecting the man and the woman

Benefit: Grounding

Benefit: Obedience to her Head of Household

Benefit: Achieve humility

Primary benefit: A better Sex Life

The sweetest Aspect of Domestic Discipline

The aftermath

 

 

Benefit: Behaviour Modification

The primary benefit of Domestic Discipline for a woman is behavior modification. Behavior modification is a very simple yet powerful effect of Domestic Discipline. People try all sorts of techniques in order to modify their own behavior – therapy, self-help books, counselling, prayer, meditation, medication, and numerous other methods and modalities. Sometimes they work and sometimes they don’t. Sometimes they work a little bit and sometimes they work a lot. Naturally, it varies from person to person. But many women try various techniques to modify their own behavior without success. These experiences often leave a woman disappointed and frustrated that her time, money and effort have resulted in so little positive change.

One thing that is virtually guaranteed to work when it comes to behavior modification is Domestic Discipline. Domestic Discipline is an almost sure fire way to modify a woman’s behavior (or more correctly, misbehavior) for the better. The pain, shock and humiliation of a bare-bottomed punishment spanking has a profound effect on a woman’s psyche. It strongly discourages her from making the same mistake again. It strongly discourages her from misbehaving in the same way again. It strongly encourages her to modify her behavior.

Behaviour modification and Spanking

You might perhaps think that there are much easier ways for a woman to modify her behavior than being put over her husband’s lap and spanked to tears. Why wouldn’t any sane woman choose an easier way than that? Why wouldn’t she use an easier, less humiliating method of modifying her behavior than being spanked like a child? Why would a woman choose the most unpleasant option? The answer is because the most unpleasant option is also the most effective. The most unpleasant option – a punishment spanking – is also the most likely to produce the most beneficial outcome. It is the most likely to produce genuine and lasting behavior modification. Whatever the kind of misbehavior that needs to be modified or corrected – disobedience, dishonesty or disrespect – Domestic Discipline is the technique that is the most likely to achieve real behavior modification for a woman. It will stop her from behaving in a negative, non-loving and destructive manner. It will provide her with a strong discouragement against further behavior of the same kind.

Domestic Discipline will encourage the punished woman to change her behavior for the better. And it will do this in no uncertain terms. Being put over her HOH’s knee and having her bottom spanked until she cries is not something she can easily forget or ignore. The memory of the spanking and the pain of the spanking will remain with her for hours, if not days. It will encourage her to behave better in future so that she does not receive the same punishment again for the same offense. It is a very simple yet deeply effective way of modifying a woman’s behavior for her own good, so that she becomes more loving, respectful, honest and obedient.

Behavior modification is great, but it is not an end in itself. It sounds great, but there are other considerations too. There is no point a woman modifying her behavior (or being encouraged to modify her behavior) if her attitude does not change too. If she is spanked for a particular kind of misbehavior such as lying, swearing, etc, it is great if the spanking results in her ceasing to behave in that way. But if she avoids that negative behavior while walking around with a permanently resentful attitude or a constant sour expression on her face, that is not a great outcome. Domestic Discipline will help her to change her attitude as well as her behavior. Domestic Discipline is a great attitude adjuster. Not only is it necessary to sometimes modify a woman’s negative behavior, it is also necessary to encourage her to change her attitude to a more positive, loving one.

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Benefit: The Deterrent effect

Another important benefit of Domestic Discipline is that it has a deterrent effect. This is part of its behavior modification aspect, but deterrence is a specific process and benefit for the woman who is disciplined. The process of receiving a punishment spanking has the effect of deterring a woman from repeating her misbehavior. The pain and humiliation of her spanking deters her from making the same mistake again. Deterrence is in itself a very good reason to use Domestic Discipline, because the deterrent effect of discipline spanking is so effective in preventing a recurrence of negative feminine behavior.

The word “discipline” has a number of different meanings, according to the dictionary. Its original meaning was instruction or teaching. It also refers to the concept of “training” – training that corrects, molds, or perfects the mental faculties or moral character. Domestic Discipline includes these meanings and these benefits within the lifestyle. Domestic Discipline has the benefit of actually “teaching” the woman to behave better. This benefit of teaching is quite extensive and very valuable. Her HOH uses his love for his woman and his wisdom to teach her to live, speak and act in a more loving way. Just as a parent teaches their child, so too an HOH teaches his woman via Domestic Discipline. This does not mean that a woman is on the same level as a child and that the HOH is her parent. It simply means that she acknowledges that she cannot always behave in a way that is best for her and for those around her. In such situations, she accepts that her HOH will teach her a better way to behave. She allows herself to be taught a lesson by him when he decides it is necessary for her. She submits to his teaching because she realizes that she will learn something useful from it. She sees that his teaching will be beneficial for her, even if she is not always completely receptive at first. In the long run, the teaching aspect of Domestic Discipline will help her to become a better person.

The teaching aspect

The teaching aspect of Domestic Discipline does not imply that the woman is stupid or ignorant. It simply means that she wants to learn various things that she does not yet know or has not yet fully mastered or understood. Students who go to college, university or night school are not stupid. They simply want to learn things. That is the role of the teaching aspect of Domestic Discipline. It is a great benefit for the woman that she is taught by her HOH as an integral part of the Domestic Discipline lifestyle.

That teaching aspect of Domestic Discipline is connected to the concept of training that is one of the meanings of the word “discipline.” Discipline means training that corrects, molds, or perfects the mental faculties or moral character. Training does not mean some kind of humiliating animal training or slave training as in BDSM. It simply means that a woman’s HOH uses Domestic Discipline to correct, mold and perfect the behavior of his woman, for her own good and for the good of those around her. It does not mean that he is molding her into the ideal, silent, submissive little wife who will serve him unquestioningly, for his own selfish benefit. It means that he is helping her to become a better person. It means that he is helping her to become a happier and more fulfilled person too. Training is a positive, helpful and beneficial part of Domestic Discipline. The woman who receives Domestic Discipline is fortunate enough to get exactly the right kind of training – the kind that is best for her, personally. It is the ultimate, individualized, personal training for the woman who wants to achieve maximum personal growth. Domestic Discipline is personal training or life coaching from the person who loves her best in the whole world – her husband. And it is free!

Punishment

The primary meaning of the word “discipline” is punishment. Punishment is viewed by many as the sole activity of Domestic Discipline, even though that is obviously not the case. However, punishment is still a very important benefit of Domestic Discipline. If a woman behaves in a negative, harmful way that is bad for herself or other people, it is appropriate that she receive some form of punishment. Punishment is a form of retribution. It is a kind of negative payback for the harm that she has caused. It involves a measured and effective amount of suffering for the woman, otherwise it would not be called punishment. The punishment aspect of Domestic Discipline has a number of different benefits but is also beneficial in itself. When a woman is punished for her misbehavior, she gains an immediate benefit from the punishment. Although Domestic Discipline has many other benefits, the punishment involved in a discipline spanking is a powerful and effective benefit for the woman.

The punishment involved in Domestic Discipline is primarily corporal in nature, although there are other types of punishment or discipline in the lifestyle too, as many people may already know. On a very simple level, the Non-Spanking Discipline techniques are forms of punishment that do not necessarily involve physical suffering, but which are still highly beneficial for the disciplined woman. Nonetheless, the physical nature of the punishment in Domestic Discipline is very powerful, beneficial and productive. It leads in turn to a number of other benefits for the woman, due to its natural intensity. These benefits are related to both the physical and the emotional impacts of the suffering produced by the woman’s punishment.

Benefit: Catharsis

One of the most important benefits of the punishment aspect of Domestic Discipline is catharsis. Catharsis is a cleansing or purging of negative emotions, either via a purification process or by bringing the emotions into conscious awareness. Essentially, spanking is emotionally cleansing for the woman. It cleanses her negative emotions. It removes her guilt. She may feel guilty because she knows that she has done the wrong thing and is being punished for it. She feels guilty because she has let herself down. She feels guilty because she has let her husband down and now he has had to teach her a lesson by spanking her. Some of her guilt may come from other incidents in the past which are not directly related to her current episode of misbehavior, but which still have contributed in some way to her current predicament. The beauty of Domestic Discipline is that the HOH does not need to know what these original causes of guilt are or were. He simply needs to spank his woman properly and the punishment aspect of Domestic Discipline will take care of her guilt via catharsis.

The cathartic aspect of Domestic Discipline will also deal with the shame that the woman feels about her behavior and/or her attitude. The physical and emotional intensity of her punishment spanking will remove her shame, because she is temporarily placed in a far more shameful position as a result of having to be spanked. Being made to remove her clothing and being spanked to tears is a profoundly shameful experience for a grown woman that eclipses any prior shame that she may have been feeling in relation to her misbehavior. Domestic Discipline will also help a woman to deal with other types of shame, such as the shame that she may feel about her own body. The article on Nudity discusses this in more detail, but essentially a woman who is required to be partially or fully nude during a punishment spanking will be forced to accept her body in a non-sexual situation. This is highly beneficial for her, even though it may be quite unpleasant until she becomes more accustomed to it.

Domestic Discipline will also deal with a woman’s sense of self-disgust. She will often feel self-disgust at how she has behaved, at how she has let herself down, at how she has let her HOH down, and at how she has let other people down. Self-disgust is a strong, negative emotion that is completely flushed away by the painful and unpleasant punishment aspect of Domestic Discipline, as well as the loving reconciliation that should normally take place afterwards. Catharsis helps a woman to overcome her self-disgust by washing it away.

The cathartic aspect of Domestic Discipline is largely dependent on the emotional and physical intensity of a woman’s punishment. The main gauge of punishment intensity and effectiveness is tears or crying. By bringing a woman successfully to tears during her punishment, her HOH can achieve a sufficiently intense level of punishment that will bring about a strong emotional cleansing for her. The harder and longer she cries, the more cleansing and cathartic her spanking will be. The more that she is spanked WHILE she is actually crying, the more intense and beneficial her catharsis will be. It is always important and beneficial to continue (or start) to spank a woman when she begins to cry, because that will intensify the cathartic benefit of her tears. Spanking a woman while she is sobbing is always highly recommended in Domestic Discipline.

Benefit: Releasing emotions

Another benefit of catharsis in Domestic Discipline is that it will often help to release various repressed emotions that a woman may have. These repressed emotions are things that she cannot yet express, even though she feels them strongly. Just because emotions are unconscious does not mean they have no power. Often unconscious emotions are more powerful than conscious ones.

Domestic Discipline will also help a woman to release any repressed beliefs that she may be holding. She may subconsciously believe that she has a right to treat people any way she likes, or that she can act without consequences. She can be completely unaware that she holds such beliefs until the intense emotional experience of Domestic Discipline helps to release these beliefs into her conscious mind. Then she can process them and let them go where appropriate.

One of the primary benefits of Domestic Discipline is to relieve stress. This stress is usually thought of as the woman’s own stress, which is in fact usually the case. Her stress can increase to quite intense levels that sometimes can only be adequately dealt with via the intensity of a Domestic Discipline spanking. But it is important to remember that it is not only the woman’s stress that needs to be relieved. When a woman is stressed, the whole household seems to get stressed. The woman is the center of the home. She is the emotional and physical center of the household. When she becomes stressed, she affects the entire home. Her stress does not stop with her – it spreads out to affect others. That stress is a significant and problematic influence on the family. Many women think that their hell is a private one, but in fact their stress affects all those around them. The best solution to a woman’s stress, when it is affecting the entire household, is to spank her. It need not be a punishment spanking. She might just need a good stress relief spanking. Whichever one it is, a good spanking will relieve not only her own stress, but also the stress of the entire household. All those around her will benefit when she is spanked out of her stress. Maintenance Discipline spankings have a role to play here too, because they deal with and resolve the woman’s stress on a regular basis. Spanking her regularly will benefit the entire household because her stress levels will be properly managed and dealt with via the Maintenance Discipline process.

Benefit: Experience Submission

Another important benefit of Domestic Discipline for the woman is that it allows her to experience submission. As explained in the “Submission” article, submission is central to feminine sexuality and feminine psychology. Submission is central to a woman’s experience of her own femininity. Submission is the primary means by which a woman experiences sexuality, experiences sexual pleasure and experiences fulfillment as a female being. A woman who has never experienced submission has never really experienced what it means to be female. She has never had a deep and genuine experience of her own femininity, because without submission she is denying her true self.

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Since submission is so important for a woman and her fulfillment, it is correspondingly important that she be allowed to experience submission on a regular basis. Submission is like air, water, food, sleep or exercise: while she doesn’t always need or want to experience it all the time, it is vital that she does experience it on a regular basis.

Domestic Discipline gives a woman a direct and powerful experience of submission. Every time she is disciplined by her HOH, she experiences submission. Any discipline – whether it is a punishment spanking, a Maintenance Discipline, a Preemptive Discipline, a Disobedience Discipline or even a Non-Spanking Discipline – will enable her to experience submission. Every time a woman is disciplined she is required to submit to her HOH’s will and her HOH’s punishment. Discipline provides one of the deepest experiences of submission that a woman can have. It provides her with one of the greatest opportunities to experience her own femininity, because her femininity and the experience of submission are so intimately bound up together.

Benefit: Teaching Submission

There is another important benefit of Domestic Discipline in relation to submission. Not only does Domestic Discipline give the woman the gift of a strong and direct experience of submission, but it also helps to teach her submission. Not all women are as submissive as they would like to be, even though they know how valuable the experience of submission is to them as women. They seek to experience deeper levels of submission so that they can experience deeper levels of their own femininity. But because of various factors including social conditioning, fears and emotional blocks, they are unable to submit as deeply to their HOH as they would like. This is quite a common experience – women who want to submit more deeply to their HOH but find themselves lacking the knowledge and experience to allow themselves to do so.

Domestic Discipline will also teach a woman submission. Domestic Discipline will help a woman to learn to be more submissive, even as it simultaneously allows her to experience whichever level of submission she is currently at. The experience of being disciplined by her HOH, of being stripped naked, of being placed in a humbling or even humiliating position, of having stern but just corporal punishment inflicted on her bare bottom, of being brought to tears so that she is sobbing and contrite – all these help to teach the woman to become more submissive to her HOH and to her punishment. Just as she is given the experience of submission when she is disciplined, so too she is actively being taught to be more submissive before, during and after her punishment.

It is not just the spanking or the nudity that compels a woman to experience and learn deeper submission during the disciplinary process. Other techniques such as Corner Time, Command Tone, scolding and thanking also demand a strong degree of submission from the woman. Scolding in particular is very effective in teaching the disciplined woman to be more submissive to her HOH. Corner Time often gives the woman an opportunity to reflect on her misbehavior that can lead directly to a more submissive and obedient attitude. A man’s Command Tone demands and inspires immediate submission from a woman. His Command Tone teaches her to submit immediately and without question to her HOH.

Benefit: Experience Feminity

Since Domestic Discipline both gives a woman an experience of submission as well as teaching her submission as a natural result of the disciplinary process, it also benefits her by giving her a more significant experience of her own femininity. There are many other things that a man can do to make his wife feel more feminine: making love to her, buying her flowers, taking her out to dinner, complimenting her on her appearance, etc. Why do women like to experience these things? Partly because they make her feel more special. Everyone likes to feel special. But most men would not be so excited to be bought flowers, for example. It is not only important for a woman to be made to feel special. She must be made to feel both special AND feminine for the effect to really work.

Domestic Discipline achieves this quite effectively. It makes the woman feel that her HOH cares enough about her to hold her responsible and accountable for her own behavior. He cares enough to go to the time and effort to discipline her for her misbehavior. Although she does not want to feel the pain and humiliation of a punishment spanking, she feels that her HOH is making a special effort to modify and improve her behavior and her attitude. He is making her feel special because he cares enough to discipline her.

And because Domestic Discipline involves both teaching the woman to be more submissive and giving her a deeper experience of her own submission to her HOH, she feels much more feminine as a result of being disciplined. For a woman, a punishment spanking or a Maintenance Discipline spanking is almost like the emotional equivalent of being wined and dined, because it makes her feel special and it makes her feel feminine. That feeling of femininity is really a gift that her HOH gives her via his discipline of her. Although another woman can say or do things to make her feel feminine, nothing really compares to the feeling of femininity created by a man. Femininity would not exist without masculinity. The concepts of day or night would not have meaning if the other did not exist. It is the same with masculine and feminine energies. On their own they have no significance. They are only real in relation to each other. So it takes a man to make a woman really feel feminine. And one of the greatest and most powerful experiences of femininity comes from a woman being subjected to Domestic Discipline by her male HOH.

Most important benefit: Reconnecting the man and the woman

One of the most important benefits of Domestic Discipline is that it reconnects the man and his woman. Not just physically, although there is an obvious physical connection between the HOH’s hand and his woman’s bottom. But Domestic Discipline also creates an intimate but powerful connection between the woman and her HOH. This is a connection of love, emotion and intimacy between them. It is facilitated by the spanking, which humbles the woman and helps reconnect her with her own femininity. Through her submission, she learns to be more loving. Teaching her respect and obedience also helps to remind her to be more loving.

Every discipline teaches a woman submission. Every discipline helps a woman to become more loving, honest, obedient and respectful. Every discipline does a woman some good. This applies to all forms of Domestic Discipline, including Maintenance Discipline spankings, which are administered as a regular reminder to the woman to behave well and to obey and submit to her HOH. For the same reason, even a discipline which has been unjustly applied, because the woman is not in fact guilty of actual misbehavior, will still benefit her greatly. A woman will always obtain the benefits of being taught submission and gaining a deeper experience of her femininity whenever she is disciplined, regardless of whether that discipline is for genuine misbehavior or not.

Benefit: Grounding

Discipline is very grounding for a woman. When her emotions get the better of her, she can get tossed on a sea of turbulent feelings that quickly seem to spiral out of control. She may be hurtling between different emotions – anger, frustration, sadness, bitchiness, and more. She is often not sure whom she hates more – her husband or herself. The uncertainty that she feels about her own emotions is a sign that she is completely ungrounded. It is a sign that she lost the connection with the true basis of her own reality. By disciplining her, the HOH helps her to regain terra firma, so that emotionally she is standing on firm ground again. The shock and pain of a good spanking will always help to ground a woman immediately. Wherever she is with her emotions, however far she has strayed from reality, Domestic Discipline will always ground her firmly and surely.

Another benefit of Domestic Discipline is that it brings the woman back into the present moment. This is connected to grounding her. When she is ungrounded, not only is she not thinking and feeling in a realistic way, she is usually mentally or emotionally remote from her true situation. She often has her thoughts elsewhere – worrying, negative, hateful, envious, nasty thoughts that have no direct connection to her present place. When a woman receives a firmly administered punishment spanking or Maintenance Discipline, this immediately helps to bring her into the present. It forces her to be present, instead of being mentally or emotionally absent. When a woman is not present, her physical and moral status (or “presence”) is weakened. It reduces her grip on reality and her power in the world. But when she is spanked, she is brought right into the present moment by the pain of her husband’s hand or belt on her bare bottom. Wherever she was before, she is obliged to get back into the present.

Benefit: Obedience to her Head of Household

Domestic Discipline helps a woman to be more obedient to her HOH. Why is obedience a good thing? Because it forms a part of her submission. The disobedient wife is a woman who has not yet recognized her own need for submission. By fighting her own submission, she also fights her own femininity. She makes what is a personal development issue and a spiritual issue into a political one. Obedience is an integral part of a woman’s submission. Through her obedience to her HOH, she expresses and enhances her own submission, and therefore her own femininity. Every time she obeys her HOH, she is not losing her freedom or her independence. She is expressing her submission and her femininity. She is building up her own existence and enhancing her own life. She also enhances the love and harmony that exist in her relationship with her husband. Domestic Discipline directly contributes to domestic harmony by facilitating feminine obedience to the HOH.

The most important benefit of Domestic Discipline is love. Love is what Domestic Discipline is all about, ultimately. Although it seems, on the surface, to revolve around the painful and humiliating punishment of a woman by spanking her to tears, it is ultimately about love. The real purpose of Domestic Discipline is to teach the woman about love. A woman will often erect barriers to receiving love. The disciplinary process destroys these barriers in an incredibly short amount of time. The woman’s HOH uses his masculine authority and moral strength to knock over her barriers to love. By spanking her to tears, the HOH takes his woman from hate to love in a matter of minutes.

Benefit: Achieve humility

Domestic Discipline helps a woman to achieve more humility. This means that she is taught to overcome any arrogance or unreasonable pride that may lead to hubris, which is a sense that she is greater than anyone or anything else, including the force of creation. Being spanked is essentially a very humbling experience. Spanking the misbehaving woman helps her to learn humility so that her interactions with others and with herself are more loving and real, instead of being motivated by arrogance. Domestic Discipline does not try to reduce a woman’s natural and justified pride in her achievements, both professional and personal. Instead, it benefits her by teaching her to avoid arrogance and hubris.

When a woman receives Domestic Discipline, she is usually spanked to tears, which is an intense emotional experience for her. But afterwards, she feels a great sense of security. This sense of security comes from the fact that her HOH has disciplined her. This does not seem calculated to produce security. Logically, you would imagine that she would be more likely to feel insecure as a result of having been spanked until she was sobbing. She would feel as though her HOH could spank her at any time, which would contribute to a strong feeling of insecurity. Yet the opposite is true.

The reason why a woman enjoys such a strong feeling of security after she has been punished is because her HOH has protected her from herself. In spite of the various dangers that lurk in the world outside – physical threats to our security – the greatest foe lies within. The great threat to a woman’s own wellbeing, happiness and security is herself. Her own negative attitudes and behavior are far more threatening than any exterior threat or risk. When her HOH disciplines her, she knows that he has successfully defended her from her greatest enemy – that part of her own personality which harbors the darkest and most dangerous thoughts.

Primary benefit: A better Sex Life

One of the primary benefits of Domestic Discipline for most couples is that it improves their sex life remarkably. The degree of sexual passion that is kindled by the new relationship between the man and his wife is truly impressive. The chapter on Sex discusses the various sexual aspects of Domestic Discipline. However, its beneficial effect on sex is due to its stimulation of masculine and feminine energies. The flow of feminine energy that the woman’s submission creates is matched by a corresponding flow of masculine energy from the man. As discussed in the Sex chapter, feminine and masculine energies are not exclusively sexual, although they are responsible for that aspect of our physical existence.

Many couples do not find the disciplinary process the slightest bit erotic, because the woman is being punished for her misbehavior. Others find that a punishment spanking causes physical arousal, though emotionally sex is not the main focus. But even those couples who are not at all stimulated sexually by spanking (and who never practice erotic spanking) will find that their passion for each other is increased by the Domestic Discipline lifestyle. Many report that their sex lives are equal to or in some cases better than their sex life when they first met. Domestic Discipline enables a couple to get back to that sexual honeymoon period that all couples experience at the start of their relationship, but which normally cools with time and familiarity. Most people think that is the natural way of things. With Domestic Discipline, it does not have to be like that. Couples who practice regular Domestic Discipline find that their passion for each other returns to what it was like when they first met.

The sweetest Aspect of Domestic Discipline

One of the sweetest aspects of Domestic Discipline for most couples is the reconciliation that occurs after the woman’s punishment is finished. The crying woman is forgiven and tenderly comforted by her HOH. Her lesson has been learned, she has been brought to tears and now she has been forgiven. This reconciliation is for many the best part of Domestic Discipline, because it creates an incredible emotional intimacy between the man and the woman. Many women say that this part of the disciplinary process is worth all the pain and suffering of the spanking, because it is so sweet. And that does not even take into account the many other benefits that the woman (and her HOH) receive from Domestic Discipline. The reconciliation with her HOH is a poignant and tender moment because the woman is forgiven by her HOH and receives his love. She too is permitted now to express her love and gratitude to her HOH for having taught her the lesson she needed to learn, via firmly but lovingly administered discipline.

The aftermath

The aftermath of Domestic Discipline may have many different qualities. Some couples make love. Some women may have their punishment continue by being sent to bed early or having additional Corner Time, for example. But when all is said and done, the one thing that is certain is the presence of peace in the home. Domestic Discipline is always guaranteed to produce peace in the family home, because the woman, who is the center of the home, has been lovingly disciplined. She has received the punishment she needed to ground her, so that her turbulent and negative attitudes and behavior have been resolved. The love and harmony that now reign in the home are the source of peace. No more endless bickering and arguing. No more disputes over trivial matters. No emotional blackmail. The woman is simply given the discipline she needs to return her to a more loving, natural state of mind and heart. Because once all her fear, arrogance, dishonesty, disrespect and disobedience are spanked away, the only thing left is her natural loving self. And peace descends anew over the loving home.

Ultimately, Domestic Discipline leads to happiness and fulfillment. As the woman is disciplined regularly, she grows in her love for and submission to her husband. He too takes on his natural masculine role of protector, guide and leader in his relationship and in his family. The wonderful trust, intimacy and respect that this lifestyle creates is truly among its greatest benefits. The ultimate proof of how beneficial Domestic Discipline can be is the love that it creates between a man and a woman, and the love that it generates within the woman herself. This self-love is the basis of an improved self-esteem, which is based on the firm foundations of genuine personal responsibility for her words and actions, as well as the development of a sound moral and ethical character.

Whenever you want to know why Domestic Discipline works, you only have to look at the love it creates to see why it is becoming more and more popular around the world.

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2 thoughts on “Which Are The Benefits Of Domestic Discipline?

  1. This is a great article. Any men out there who are wondering why your wife would possibly want to do this or what benefit it would have to you should read this, every section and every paragraph. I have a hard time explaining everything I feel after a spanking and why I need one. explain it it’s just sounds silly to me and absurd. However there are so many women who feel the same and this article explains it so well and covers every aspect I could think of. It’s amazing to me that such a thing as discipline could make a person feel so good. It gives me peace of mind to know that I’m not the only one who feels this way and there’s not something wrong with me. I really like the part about grounding it because I have always been an emotional person and now that I’m in premenopause I’m overly emotional. Sometimes I can’t even think straight because I’m overwhelmed and can’t snap out of it. once I get upset then I start feeling depressed. Once I get irritated I get cranky and then I get and then I feel like I’m going to explode. Sometimes I get anxiety and I want a spanking but I’m hesitant to ask for it, but then I get even more anxious thinking about whether or not I should ask for it. LOL. it sounds crazy but all of these things can be taken care of if I just get OTK of my sweet Master’s knee and let him have control. I feel so grateful for him afterwards, and so reassured that I belong to him and he will take care of me. It’s almost like having a hey baby, the pain of Labor is terrible but it’s not unbearable and it’s totally worth it because you have a beautiful baby. the pain of punishment or discipline or therapy can theme horrible for only a moment but is bearable and afterwards you receive this flood of wonderful emotions and feelings and closeness to your HOH that can last for days or weeks. I’m so glad I stumbled upon the concept of domestic discipline. We’ve Only Just Begun but I feel like it’s the beginning of the close intimate relationship I’ve been wanting us to achieve for 5 years.

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