Should Women Be Spanked Nude?

Nudity is an integral part of Loving Domestic Discipline. Although many people associate nudity primarily with sexuality, this is not always the case. In Loving Domestic Discipline, nudity plays an important role. This article is about partial or full female nudity before, during or after a Loving Domestic Discipline session. It is not about male nudity, because it is generally better if the male HOH keeps his clothes on during a disciplinary session. If he is either fully or partially naked, the disciplinary process will become overly sexualized for him, making it difficult for the man to concentrate properly on his job, which is to lovingly discipline his woman for her own benefit, not to play with her sexually for his own benefit.

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The effectiveness of nudity

Nudity is one of the reasons why spanking is usually more effective than other non-physical punishments like writing lines or being grounded. That is not to say that these cannot be effective, because they can be very effective for some women in certain situations. But these other non-physical punishments are better as secondary, supplementary punishments which reinforce the message that a woman receives during a spanking discipline. Spanking is still the single most effective form of Loving Domestic Discipline. And nudity plays a part in this effectiveness.

There are several reasons why nudity is beneficial for a woman during the Loving Domestic Discipline process. Firstly, there is a practical reason for nudity which has already been explained in the article titled, “How to Spank a Woman.” This reason is that the male HOH should be able to see what he is doing when he is spanking his woman, so that he does not accidentally spank her too hard and cause unnecessary and unwanted bruising to her bottom. And if her buttocks are covered with even a single layer of clothing (such as panties), he may unintentionally deliver a harder discipline than he intended, simply because he could not see what effect his swats were having on her bottom. So this practical reason is in fact a safety issue. It is in the interests of both the man and the woman to ensure that she is not punished too severely. Ultimately, it is the man’s responsibility, so he must take care to remove her clothing before disciplining her.

5 reasons for nudity in Spanking

Beyond the realm of the practical, there are many other important reasons to insist on either full or partial nudity for the woman while she is being disciplined. One of the most important of these reasons is that nudity will encourage both submission and humility. When a woman is naked, she will naturally experience strong feelings of vulnerability. Not only is her body exposed and unprotected, but her emotions are also similarly exposed and unprotected, regardless of how much she has tried to suppress or deny them. Her vulnerability will tend to increase her submissiveness, even if she is very apprehensive about her spanking. Her submissiveness will make her more likely to be obedient, in spite of her general unwillingness to be spanked. Nudity is a powerful precipitator of feminine submissiveness and therefore helps the disciplinary process greatly.

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Being made to be naked is also quite humbling. Simply getting undressed to go to bed is not humbling, because it is voluntary. But when a woman is ordered by her HOH to remove her clothing (or when he forcibly removes it for her), her nudity becomes humbling, because she would not normally choose to be in that state. She is temporarily reduced to a lower status because she has no clothes. This enforced humility created by nudity has the effect of puncturing any of her pride, arrogance or stubbornness that may be associated with the feminine misbehavior that is the reason for her spanking in the first place. The puncturing of her arrogance is an important part of the whole Loving Domestic Discipline process, because she cannot learn her lesson until her mental attitude changes. Removing her pride and arrogance is a key step along the path to giving her a real attitude adjustment, and helping her to see herself and her actions more clearly. The humbling effect of a woman’s nudity is an important aspect of helping her to achieve an attitude of greater humility. It is much harder for her to maintain an arrogant or pigheaded attitude when her body is no longer covered by any clothing.

Nudity will also encourage strong feelings of femininity in a woman. If she wears sexless suits with padded shoulders for work, it can be easy for her to forget that she is even female. She may behave with an arrogance or cruelty that is more typical of men than women when she is comfortably suited up, but having this armor stripped from her body can change her feelings in seconds. Not only will she feel more feminine, but she will understand that her femininity is her true self, regardless of whatever face she has to put on to survive in the business world. After all, it is her own body that she is standing in, not someone else’s. She is the one with the hips and the breasts, the curves and the thighs. She is the one who is going to get spanked, not someone else. She is the feminine one. The masculine one – he’s standing over there, with the paddle in his hand, ready to discipline her.

Why is it important for her to be reminded of her femininity? Why can’t she just be spanked and get it over with, regardless of whether she is feminine or not? Because her feminine self is her true self, her most fulfilled self. It is the aspect of her personality that requires the least mental effort to experience and to project, because it is who she is. Getting more in touch with her feminine side is one of the most important benefits of Loving Domestic Discipline. This is not only for her own sake, but for the sake of the connection between herself and her HOH, whose guiding and correcting masculine energy is also expressed through the process of Loving Domestic Discipline. By surrendering to her feminine self, she opens a pathway for the bidirectional flow of energy between herself and her HOH when he disciplines her. She submits to him, and he lovingly but firmly guides and corrects her, so that she can be a better and more loving person. This complementary dance is as old as the human race.

Some women also feel much more natural when they are naked. This sounds like stating the obvious, since all clothes are artificial, to a certain extent. But many women actually feel that nudity is the most natural state for a woman. After all, a woman’s body is much more beautiful than a man’s. Magazines for men like Playboy exist and survive because they contain pictures of naked women, not surprisingly. But most women’s magazines such as Vogue and Cosmopolitan are also full of pictures of women, some of them almost as naked as those in Playboy. This is not due to some secret lesbian conspiracy or because sexist men control the media. It is because people of both sexes would rather look at a woman’s body than a man’s, because a woman’s body is inherently more beautiful to look at. So obliging a woman to take off her clothes during Loving Domestic Discipline can often return her to a more natural and receptive state, where she can accept her discipline as something designed to help and guide her, even though it may be painful both physically and emotionally.

The contrast between the male HOH who is clothed and his woman who is naked also helps the disciplinary process greatly. This creates a temporary imbalance in power between them that facilitates his discipline of her, because it compels her to submit to her spanking more humbly than she might otherwise act. This contrast is another reason why the man should keep his clothes on when he disciplines his woman. If he removes them, he temporarily makes himself more feminine, which goes against the general thrust of Loving Domestic Discipline. It is important that he remain as masculine as possible during the disciplinary process, so that he can exercise his masculine authority properly when he spanks her. If he removes his own clothes, he weakens his own authority for the sake of his own sexual pleasure, and at the expense of the woman’s own personal progress. His discipline of her is ultimately a gift to her, not a gift to himself. In the end, he will benefit because her happiness is vital for the happiness of the household, and because she will love and respect him even more for having the courage and self-discipline to lovingly but firmly correct her misbehavior, without giving in to his own immediate sexual desires.

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Another important reason to make sure that a woman who is about to be disciplined is nude is that nudity will help her to accept her own body. Many women have serious problems with their own body image. Forcing a woman to be naked is one of the most effective ways to make her overcome her negative body image. And to force her to be naked during a process which does not necessarily have any direct relationship to sexual activity (ie, a punishment spanking) can really help her feel that her HOH accepts her body as it is, and that she should also accept her own body.

It is important for each woman to take responsibility for accepting her own body, not just blaming it on the media. Even if the media is the original source of images and ideas that may cause many women to have body image problems, that only makes the media the cause of the problem. It does not make the media the solution to the problem. The solution lies within each woman. She has to come to terms with her own body, regardless of what the media does or shows. She is responsible for herself, not for the media. She can’t change the entire media, she can only change herself. Body image is ultimately not a political problem – it is a personal problem. Personal problems are best solved by each person, not by politicians. Loving Domestic Discipline is an excellent way for a couple to get together to solve a woman’s personal problems.

Body issues in nudity

Some women have a body image problem because they are overweight. Again, enforced nudity during the Loving Domestic Discipline process can help these women overcome their own dislike of their bodies. This is not to say that weight loss for health reasons is not desirable, but the whole process of getting healthy and losing weight is a whole lot easier without self-hatred and self-loathing. It is much easier for a woman to lose weight when she does not hate her own body.

There are some people who view obesity as a natural occurrence. Yes, it is natural if you live unnaturally, as many of us do. When was the last time you saw an obese wild animal? Wild animals are naturally the correct weight for health and survival. You don’t see overweight gazelles running around in Africa, and you don’t see overweight lions trying vainly to chase them. Overweight gazelles soon become dead gazelles, and overweight lions soon become very hungry lions. The only overweight animals are some of our pets, because civilized humans give them too much food of the wrong type, along with insufficient exercise. You don’t need drugs or surgery, you just need self-love, willpower and some support from your HOH. Loving Domestic Discipline and the nudity that is a part of the disciplinary process can really help a woman to love her own body and to regain a healthy weight.

Some people might worry that nudity could become only associated with punishment in a woman’s mind, especially if she receives regular or frequent Loving Domestic Discipline via Maintenance Disciplines or Preemptive Disciplines and she is naked for every discipline. This is unlikely to be a problem in reality. One of the major side benefits of Loving Domestic Discipline is that it rapidly and substantially improves a couple’s sex life. So a woman who is lovingly disciplined is also going to get naked quite frequently for reasons which have nothing to do with Loving Domestic Discipline!

Another reason why a woman is unlikely to associate her nudity with punishment is that the disciplinary process involves not only spanking, which is the unpleasant side of things, but also forgiveness and reconciliation, which are the sweetest and most tender moments between the man and the woman. This reconnection is, for many, the main purpose and benefit of Loving Domestic Discipline, aside from any improvement in their sex life during the rest of the day or week. In addition, a woman will usually realize how effective a spanking is in helping her modify her behavior. Since Loving Domestic Discipline is a wonderfully effective way for her to act and talk more positively and lovingly, she may be just as likely to associate her temporary nudity during a discipline with the personal growth that follows afterwards. So a woman is more likely to associate her nudity during Loving Domestic Discipline with personal growth or reconnection with her man, than with any negative ideas or experiences.

How should a woman be made naked when she is disciplined?

Well, it is pretty simple, really. Either she removes her own clothes or her HOH removes them himself. If the HOH is going to remove his woman’s clothes, he should be careful not to rip them if possible. Unfortunately, damage to her clothes is occasionally unavoidable if she is disobedient and resists her discipline. Some men prefer to remove their woman’s clothing because she feels more humbled by having her clothes forcibly removed by him than by taking them off herself. If a man is unsure how his woman feels about this, he should simply ask her, rather than trying to read her mind. If she feels more submissive when he takes off her clothes for her, then that is the method that will have the best disciplinary effect.

The other way is to have the woman remove her own clothes. This may occur in the presence of her HOH, or it may occur in another room, before he arrives to discipline her. Some men prefer to tell their woman to go to the bedroom, undress and wait for him, rather than ordering her to remove her clothes in his presence. Again, he should ascertain which approach results in a more submissive mindset for the woman, rather than just assuming or guessing. If the woman is required to bare her body in front of her HOH, he should be careful not to tolerate delaying tactics or slowness from her. Some women will remove their clothing as slowly as possible, in order to defer that inevitable moment when she is put over the lap and her spanking actually begins. This deliberate slowness is a form of disobedience and should normally be treated with some kind of Disobedience Discipline to discourage her from trying to sabotage or disrupt the disciplinary process. It is also a form of disrespect for her HOH that he should not tolerate from her.

Sometimes, a woman may remove her clothes slowly with a different purpose in mind. She may be trying to do some kind of erotic striptease – either to distract her HOH from disciplining her or to make a mockery of the disciplinary process. There is nothing wrong with a woman doing a striptease to excite her man, as long as it happens outside a discipline. If she does it during or before a discipline, she is mocking the whole disciplinary process. In such a case, she should receive a Disobedience Discipline to help her maintain her respect for her HOH and for the process of Loving Domestic Discipline, which is designed for her own benefit. She is free to mock, but her HOH is also free to give her a Disobedience Discipline for that mocking.

Some men do not insist that the woman remove all her clothing, instead accepting that she only bares her bottom, or perhaps strips from the waist down. A bare bottom is the minimum for a spanking, of course, but generally speaking, the more nudity, the better. As explained in the above paragraphs, full nudity increases the effectiveness of the discipline. When a woman is fully nude, she feels more submissive, more feminine, more humble. When she is disciplined more effectively, the risk of her having to be disciplined again for the same offence diminishes greatly. It is much better for her to be disciplined once, fully nude, than to be disciplined twice, partially nude. Most women would agree with that. Those who would disagree are usually those who have a problem with their body image, and they are exactly the women who would benefit most from being fully naked during their spanking. The only really good excuse for partial nudity during a Loving Domestic Discipline is when the woman must be disciplined in a room without adequate heating, in winter, for reasons of privacy. In that relatively rare case, it might be dangerous to her health to require her to strip entirely naked for a long discipline session, so partial nudity might be acceptable. But since this is not an issue for most couples, full female nudity is a much better and more effective choice.

When should a woman be made to strip naked?

Some men feel that it is best that she be nude right from the start, so that her feelings of submission are stimulated as soon as possible. This is really the best choice for most couples, because it has the maximum disciplinary effect. Others prefer to have their woman do some Corner Time, clothed, before the man arrives in the room and the spanking starts for real. Then he may order her to the corner again, where she may be clothed or unclothed. The most minimal example of nudity is where the woman lays across the HOH’s lap fully clothed, and he only removes enough clothing to bare her bottom for the spanking. As soon as the spanking is over, he recovers her bottom with her clothing. The only really good reason for this approach is if the man is unable to control his sexual appetite at the sight of his woman’s naked body. But if he can’t control himself enough to discipline her properly, how can he discipline her with any authority? It is his own self-control and more rational, masculine approach to things that uniquely qualify him to administer Loving Domestic Discipline to her, so a demonstration of moral and physical weakness is not exactly going to inspire confidence in her. If a woman is going to humble herself long enough to take a painful and unpleasant punishment spanking from her HOH, the least he can do in return is restrain himself from jumping on her sexually, at least until she has been properly disciplined for her misbehavior.

Some men use enforced nudity as a discipline in itself. They may require the woman to remain nude for the rest of the day, as a reminder of her misbehavior and the discipline it attracted. This can be very effective for women with a poor body image, because it forces them to confront their fears about their own body. So not only does it serve as a discipline in itself, it also gradually teaches her that her body is not ugly and that she must learn to love it. This won’t usually happen in a single day, of course. Other couples would not use this kind of discipline because it is too sexual. It really depends on the individual woman as to whether this approach is effective or suitable. A man can always try it out the next time he disciplines his woman. If it is effective, he can add it to his list of useful non-spanking disciplines. Otherwise, he can simply not repeat the exercise. As long as the woman doesn’t catch cold, it can be quite effective and useful.

Nudity is an integral and important part of Loving Domestic Discipline that can and should be used by the majority of couples who practice this amazing and effective lifestyle. Nudity reconnects a woman to her essential self. Nudity helps her submit more fully to her discipline. And finally, nudity makes the whole discipline much more effective, helping her to learn her lesson more successfully and permanently, reducing the need for a follow-up discipline for the same type of misbehavior.

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