A reminder is a spanking used by the HOH at his discretion. They can be scheduled: this is usually implemented because too many punishments are happening and by doing reminders or maintenance hopefully punishments will lessen. They can occur monthly, weekly, daily or whenever the HOH feels they will bring his wife the most benefit.…
For those unfamiliar with quasi-feminist literature, the title is a twist on Helen Gurley Brown’s 1962 best-selling Sex and the Single Girl. Written a few years before she became editor-in-chief at Cosmopolitan – and after fatherless writer Helen Gurley married producer David Brown – the loosely based autobiographical guide to “love, sex, and money” became…
Too many young women think that self-discipline is all they need in life. The truth is that self-discipline or prevention is only one part of the personal equation. External discipline or correction is another. Neither works particularly well totally exclusive of the other. This can be especially true when it comes to marriage. While it…
Ever so often, some college coed posts somewhere just so she can tell the whole world that she is so smart that she does not have to listen to any man. It all sounds too good to be true – and it is. Here is why. A few years ago, the universities of Aberdeen, Bristol,…
Submitting to my husband and learning to respect him, as God said for wives to do (it’s in the Bible), strengthened my marriage, and maybe even saved it from disaster. I love my husband. I’m thankful that God pointed out to me His design for marriage, because I had somehow overlooked those verses before. It’s…
One of the common questions that people have about Domestic Discipline is why doesn’t the HOH suffer any consequences for his own mistakes or negative behavior? Why is it that the woman gets spanked but the HOH gets off without so much as a slap on the wrist? This seems inherently unfair to many women,…
After a lot of discussion and prayer, my husband and I adopted a DD lifestyle. We talked about this openly before we were married, and made the decision then. Unlike a lot of the other women I read about, this was more at his urging than mine. I am pretty sure his brother spanks…
When I choose submission, what am I choosing? I can’t hold myself up as a perfectly submissive wife and I don’t have all the answers, but I can share some thoughts from my personal perspective. What are my goals? What are my dreams? What am I asking for, in my husband and in myself? Not…
Recently, I received a letter that I had intended to use in the advice section of the website. But as I thought about the question more, I realized that the issue was one that is so central to many of the couples who are using spanking in their relationships yet at the same time so…
How to behave during your discipline This is a massive post (8500 words). Take your time and use the anchors to jump to the respective points: INTRODUCTION Principlne 1: Submission What does Submission actually mean? Principlne 2: Responsibility Appropriate Behaviour: Obedience Appropriate Behaviour: Speaking Misbehaviour: Swearing Misbehaviour: Yelling Misbehaviour: Blocking How to deal with blocking Misbehaviour: Clenching…
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