The benefits of clear rules in Domestic Discipline
This is a guest post: the benefits of clear rules in Domestic Discipline. One of my readers will describe her life in this post.
This is a guest post: the benefits of clear rules in Domestic Discipline. One of my readers will describe her life in this post.
Many women will admit, if only to themselves, that when spanked to tears they feel relief and love, knowing that their HOH is willing and strong enough to hold them accountable for their actions. When a woman admits this she is also admitting that she respects her HOH, and his decisions, that when she is…
Submitting to my husband and learning to respect him, as God said for wives to do (it’s in the Bible), strengthened my marriage, and maybe even saved it from disaster. I love my husband. I’m thankful that God pointed out to me His design for marriage, because I had somehow overlooked those verses before. It’s…
My husband and I have been practicing DD for almost two years now. I say “practicing” because as someone once pointed out to me, there is no such thing as a perfect DD marriage or any marriage really, so in essence, we are all practicing what we live. At first, it was exciting and scary…
When you discipline your wife, for either misbehavior or maintenance it is best to start slow and warm up her bottom, spanking her with less intensity and not going full force right out of the gate. After a sufficient warm up you will be able to spank her with great intensity and a longer period…
How should a woman thank her HOH for disciplining her? Well – in words, basically. She simply needs to say thank you to him. That is an easy concept but an important one. And if it is forgotten, it changes the whole Loving Domestic Discipline dynamic into a harsher and less productive process. It doesn’t…
This is a massive post (8500 words). Take your time and use the anchors to jump to the respective points: INTRODUCTION Principlne 1: Submission What does Submission actually mean? Principlne 2: Responsibility Appropriate Behaviour: Obedience Appropriate Behaviour: Speaking Misbehaviour: Swearing Misbehaviour: Yelling Misbehaviour: Blocking How to deal with blocking Misbehaviour: Clenching Appropriate Behaviour: Listening Appropriate Behaviour: Respect Appropriate Behaviour:…
My husband informed me this morning we were going to have a maintenance session this evening for the first time in months. As I mentioned in a previous blog, I’ve been having a hard time keeping things in order. My husband thinks a maintenance session might help me get back on track. I have neglected…
One of the common questions that people have about Domestic Discipline is why doesn’t the HOH suffer any consequences for his own mistakes or negative behavior? Why is it that the woman gets spanked but the HOH gets off without so much as a slap on the wrist? This seems inherently unfair to many women,…
A couple sent us questions essentially admitting his confusion about what it means to be dominant in the marriage. Here’s what the husband stated: I have learned what it’s NOT (at least for us). 1) It’s not assigning more duties or doing less myself. 2) It’s not making all the decisions. 3) It’s not being less loving…